After talking to my friend Bj about guys of course, he definitely spit some knowledge to me. I used to get so mad and upset over one certain person pertinently an old ex. I will admit he would get to me by saying hurtful things and would even make me cry. But as time flew by I started worrying about me and not dealing with the drama. Sometimes he would call me or text me and I would usually answer it. I was basically giving in when I shouldn’t have. He still continues to do it. But this time I have a stronger back bone. I stand my ground and don’t answer him. He sees that I am doing good without him, so he decides to hit me up thinking he can get through to me. Well its not working because I no longer get mad, cry or even try to curse him out. Why? Because I have realized it is a waste of time. If he doesn’t get it the first time, he definitely won’t get it the second time around. People HATE to see you do good without them and when they do see that they try anything possible to bring you down.